I'VE BEEN PONDERING Perhaps it's being in middle age, but I feel I am having more and more conversations with friends and clients about death. These are actual conversations I've had in the past week: the shock of a friend dying young, the reality that one spouse is likely to die before the other, the tragedy of unnecessary violent deaths, and the gift of being with a parent as their time comes to an end. Of course there are also money aspects. It doesn't seem right that death should be a...
5 months ago • 2 min read
“THE ACQUISITION OF MEMORIES” They say that a checkbook and a calendar never lie. If that's true, and I believe it is, then we should occasionally ask ourselves an important question: If an impartial observer tallied up how you spend your time and money, what would they say is important to you? While I'm certainly hopeful they'd say that you spend your time and money in complete alignment with what's most important to you, I'm guessing most of us would feel that we could do a bit better. I...
7 months ago • 3 min read
I'VE BEEN PONDERING With the stock market hovering around all-time highs again (see 2023 returns below), it's natural to wonder what's next. Will the market continue to climb, or will we experience yet another decline? If we follow the constant doom and gloom headlines, we're likely to believe that it will be the latter. Of course, the truth is that nobody knows, which of course offers no comfort whatsoever. But negative headlines are a dime a dozen no matter where the market stands at any...
9 months ago • 3 min read
I'VE BEEN PONDERING Most of you know I served on a Federal Grand Jury for 18 months. Every other Thursday my fellow citizens and I found our way to a windowless room in the courthouse on 9th and Market in Philadelphia, to hear overviews from Assistant US Attorneys and testimony from witnesses, and to vote on whether or not to indict. Some cases were done in an hour; some took many months. It was a fascinating (if time consuming) look into our justice system. Our Grand Jury was assigned to...
10 months ago • 2 min read
I'VE BEEN PONDERING Have you thought about the day you may no longer be fit to look after your own finances? A friend pointed me to this recent New York Times article about that conundrum. (This is a "gift" link which should give you full access to the article, even without a subscription.) I was delighted to find it features a financial planner whom Janice and I happen to know, Elliott Appel. He went through his own journey when his father started showing signs of impairment. The article...
about 1 year ago • 2 min read
What’s the Next Crisis? We find ourselves already halfway through the year, and I don’t want to spoil your enjoyment of late sunsets and lazy days. But it’s been an eventful six months in terms of headlines. In fact, there have been three separate “crises” that have seemingly defined 2023 so far, at least in the financial press. But here's an interesting thought experiment. I'm curious if you can remember the primary topic of each of the three crises we've experienced this year? I'll give you...
over 1 year ago • 2 min read
ONLINE COURSE ALERT! Have you ever wished for an in-depth, approachable online course on Personal Finance specifically for Women? Taught by me? That's just what I was asked to create for the American Physician Institute - and it goes live next week! There are eight separate talks spread over four weeks, starting Wednesday, May 24, with 13 full hours of learning! Or you can watch the recordings whenever you have time. One of the things I'm most excited about is the exclusive interview with...
over 1 year ago • 1 min read
I'VE BEEN PONDERING Here's a financial risk you may not have thought about: longevity. While most people hope for a long life, living a long time can be a risk to your financial security. Laura Carstensen, Director of the Stanford Center on Longevity and author of A Long Bright Future, spoke at a conference I attended years ago, and her words are stuck in my brain. She said, "Medical science has given us an extra 30 years of life. Isn't it interesting that we chose to put them on the end." 🤯...
over 1 year ago • 2 min read
I'VE BEEN PONDERING: Being a Woman is Expensive! Women face myriad financial challenges. Have you read the endless articles about the gender wage gap? And the time women take out of the workforce to be caregivers? Oh - and our longer life expectancy? Less frequently discussed is the fact that life actually costs more for us! A recent article from HerMoney states, ”the truth is, it’s expensive to be a woman. Much more expensive over the course of our lifetimes than it is to be a man. Many of...
over 1 year ago • 3 min read